To sum up the last 2 months, it's been a struggle. A struggle trying to fit in, to find 'our zen' in this new location; a struggle to enjoy the Holidays to the fullest; a struggle trying to plan and execute a 16 hour roundtrip 'vacation' with a toddler--with several minor trips in between; a struggle to keep up our optimism and happy attitude towards our new life when we truly weren't feeling it. Audrey has been such a light in this otherwise 'grey time'. She is getting into everything, and we all think it's hilarious! She's developed a stink eye smile, loves to flash off her belly button to other kids in public and immediately starts to twerk when 'Shake it off' comes on. Thank heaven for this outrageously awesome human we created!!!!
We just got back from our 2 week adventure back to Cleveland- and while it was great, it still somehow wasn't enough time?? There is a whole list of people we wanted to see so badly, but we just couldn't find the time, we never even made it to South Euclid to check on our empty home! The month leading up to our trip I couldn't wait to get my hands on some Oreo Cookie Cheesecake from Corbos--never happened; nor did we pick up any of the appropriate Hungarian Paprika we need for our Sunday Paprikash. A new North Face outlet opened in Aurora- I haven't stepped inside; and Castle Noel in Medina is still on our Bucket list.....
HOWEVER.... the things we managed to do and people we were lucky enough to see- were done in such a fabulous fashion that I have to say it was an incredibly successful trip back! We made it to Akron in only 8 hours and 13 minutes (woot!), which meant we had to wake poor little A up from the ride at only 4:45am. But this kid was a champ - went right back to bed immediately and slept until 9:30am! That night we were able to reconnect with the entire Wyszysnki Clan for the annual Christmas party- what a great time! Audrey wasn't having it, it appears she suffers from 'Mommy and Daddy only' syndrome- Poor thing has been stuck with only us for so long that she forgot what a big family she comes from :( But it was so much fun to see the 3 babies play together!!
The next day we ventured to Erie to see the Buffalo crews! It started with all my girlfriends and their kiddies- I can't believe that 7 years ago we were closing the bars down, and now we all have munchkins! This was also the first time that all the kids have been together, so it was even more amazing for me. My Godmomma and cousin also came to play for a little while, I can't remember the last time I saw my super cool cousin Evan because he lives the super cool life in Brooklyn.... because he's super cool.... but seeing him was-you guessed it--SUPER COOL!
As if everyone was scheduled, my Olson family arrived next. My twin cousin, Kella, was in from Charleston and with us being in Cleveland- it was only obvious that the whole family needed an entire overnight to watch us be down right hysterical. Perhaps many of you are not familiar with the term 'twin cousin'- allow me to explain.... Born a mere 107 days apart- our families were blessed with 2 blue eyed, blonde hair (amazing) babies. As we grew- it became evident, that these 2 were oddly connected. Many examples include - consistently receiving or giving identical gifts without prior knowledge; purchasing identical items (rarely in alternating colors) without prior knowledge; identical desire to spend Saturday nights learning every step to 'NSYNC: Live in Madison Square Garden'; or being separated at meals because we simply could not stop laughing....over nothing...literally. So, it came as no surprise when my twin cousin and I exchanged gifts this year- and both opened earring bags from Kate Spade, or during family game time- that we basically ran the game for one another. I'd love to see the damage we could do on 'The Amazing Race'.
It really is so far and few between that my whole side of the family can be together and I couldn't be more thankful that we were able to do it this year. Unfortunately, it was such a short trip, that Auds wasn't able to readjust to everyone as quickly as I had hoped. I guess I'll have to start implementing everyone into our everyday routine more.
Back in Akron, we were surrounded by family & friends! It was great, being able to just chit chat with anyone at any given point because they were there, play an absurd amount of ping pong and merely regain that 'homey' feeling we have been lacking.
Christmas was a whirlwind of wrapping paper- Audrey was SO into it!!! She unwrapped every one of her gifts- and a handful of others! Her honest reactions to gifts was so cute and funny too. She, as well as the rest of us, were all spoiled once again-- one of these years we will all understand the meaning of 'don't go crazy' when it comes to gift giving. Our family from Tampa was in town for the holiday as well, which was so great for us because we couldn't make it on our annual Family vacation this year with the move. I've come to the realization that marrying into this clan was such a great decision, haha. There is something so easy and relaxing when it comes to being around everyone.
Let's see here.... Rob was able to see some old friends from work (Congrats to Jason again on your upcoming new baby!!!) and I was able to down some wine with my Hyatt-iers. Audrey and I took a trip to Stow to visit some Buffalo friends of mine, and we discovered the most amazing restaurant, House of Hunan, thank to Becca & Kevin--- well, 'amazing' unless you wanted Chicken in your Chicken fried rice; then it was just OK. We ate some of our favorites foods and were even lucky enough to grab a date night to see 'Horrible Bosses 2'.
Then came New Years Eve. I'm not gonna lie- we were dreading it. We had to drive over an hour to the location, Audrey had slept really bad the night before, and the last thing I desired to do was shower. But once we arrived at the Rudys to get ready, I received my glass of wine and was prepping with the ladies- I was officially on the New Years bandwagon. Let me tell you- it was the kind of night you pray for. All the stars aligned. It was quite literally, perfect. We gambled, we drank, we ate, we laughed, we danced, we WON gambling, and when the night was over--we went home and danced some more. I've pondered if it's better we had such an epic night ('epic' in the eyes of our new lifestyle as parents)-- or worse. While it was a complete blast- it made our departure the next day that much worse. With each hour that we got further from Cleveland, we got more depressed. We just wanted to go back. We had just had an awesome 2 weeks, we were reminded everyday why we miss Cleveland so horribly.... but it was worth it.
Now we are home. It's been a productive 2 days- Christmas is only a memory in our home now, I've added a new gallery wall in the dining room, organized Audreys toys so we can start a rotation system, re organized my jewelry, finished all the laundry and spruced up the home a bit. It feels good to be back in our own space- it's not fun living out of a suitcase. It' a new year and it's going to be a new me. My resolution is to do a better job of blogging and keeping the home organized. Obviously, the age old resolution of 'get fit' still stands-- BLAH! Rob and I have got to stop living in the past of 'how our lives were' and start developing our life into 'what it can be'- and that will be the focus for 2015!!
Here are just a few snapshots of our holiday adventure; I'll post a larger album on Facebook in the near future :)
I've missed you all!
XOXO
I missed your updates! Audrey is *such* a cutie!! It sounds like you had a super busy holiday, but a good one nonetheless. I hope your 2015 is bright!!!
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